St Francis Caregiver Conference, Nov. 2nd

8th Annual Conference: “The Roadmap to Caregiving”

Here’s the program:
8:30 – 9:00 Registration
9:00 – 9:10 Welcome
9:10 – 9:50 Personal Journeys of Caregiving
9:50 – 11:00 Rest Stops Along the Way!
11:00 – 11:15 Pit Stop/Visit Vendors /Raffles
11:15 – 12:00 Legal Session – Navigating the Legal Currents
12:00 – 1:00 Lunch
Visit Vendors /Raffles
1:00 – 2:00 Packing For the Trip To a Home Away from Home-
Long-Term Care Services
2:00 – 2:15 Pit Stop/Visit Vendors/Raffles
2:15 – 3:00 Bob Miller – “My Journey with Sal”
3:00 Closing/Surveys/Raffles

Hope that you can make it!

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What a lovely send-off: Fresh thinking for funerals

This is a really well written article about how the funeral industry is changing to more personalized, family oriented ceremonies. Hope that you get a chance to read it. Thanks to our friends at Dying Matters

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The Caregiver Crisis

An absolute MUST site for healthcare professionals as well as volunteers and administrators.

TEDMED – Great Challenge – The Caregiver Crisis.

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How Virtual Environments can be used to Help Others

Dedicating Efforts

computer game

A scene from Hadron Voyager

When you are in the virtual environment and you are running through the “game,” you can dedicate that run to the benefit of another. Dedicating an effort or activity, such as an  orb run, to the benefit of another being is essentially the same as doing a reading.  As we are doing that particular activity we “keep the person in mind” as we pursue the activity. We do this in whatever way that works best for us. Suggestions for how to do this more effectively are given here. We may want to have a picture of the individual on hand. We may  have his or her name, location or birth date written on a piece of paper. But somehow we try to remember that this particular effort includes his or her benefit. Some day we will be able to dedicate much more sustained efforts to the benefit of others, but for now, shorter, focused bursts of good intention are what we’re working with.

My angle in approaching all of this is from the caregiving or working-with-the-elderly viewpoint. A major problem of caregiving is that many of the elderly, once they become unable to maintain an active lifestyle, become unhappy and depressed. Their kids (generally) suffer as a result and are looking for things they can do to alleviate their parents’ suffering.

Doing readings or running orbs can actually help, but the caregivers have to be of the ilk to give it a try and put some effort into it. They can run an orb and dedicate it to their loved one. If they run the orb in the presence of their parent or loved one it will have even better result. Some folks may more readily do orb runs than readings, so here before us opens another path of service for others and ourselves.

talkin bout the revolution

Not all elderly who are infirm or less active are unhappy. In fact many are doing just fine. Their kids benefit from this. Its absolutely astounding how much difference attitude makes. A good attitude lasts right up to the very end.

Here is how you start if you want to run an orb for the benefit of another:

If you have the Caregiver Insta Fix CD, simply insert it into your CD drive and it will automatically start the game. Use your arrow keys or RIGHT Mouse button to move your character.

If you don’t have the CD:

  1. Download an orb.
    • Visit Prosperity Path Remedies page
    • Select an orb of your choice. Whether you use your intuition or common sense to select an orb — you cant go wrong.
    • Navigate to the page for the orb of your choice.
    • You simply press the download button on the page. (Typically just right of the title).
    • You will be directed to a paypal page where you must pay a download fee of 99 cents. (This covers the download fee that we have to pay the company, prosperity in itself is free – (we just can’t pay the bill if a million people decides to download our games)
    • If you don’t have a paypal account you can choose “DONT HAVE A PAYPAL ACCOUNT” and pay with your credit card as you normally would.
    • You should now be directed to a download page. And, if you have given a corect email address, you will also receive an email which contain a link to the download.
    • Click on the download link.
    • Save the download on your computer. Please remember where you save the download to.
  2. Install the game.
    • When you have downloaded the game you will find it in the folder you have either choosen or it will most likely be in the download folder, if you cant find it and have windows 7 or vista you can make a search by clicking the blue windows tab in the left corner in the bottom and write the name of the game in the searchbox.
    • When you have found the game you click on it or choose the command open and the file will start installation.
    • Follow the instructions in the installer and it should be pretty darn simple.
    • You might get a message from Windows suggesting that “Windovs is not certain that this program is installed correctly.” This is not a problem, the game will have installed correctly. This is fine. Just click “The software installed correctly.”
  3. Play the game.
    • Double click the icon on your desktop to start the game. It is okay to allow the game to make changes.
    • You will be asked to enter your name. Please do.
    • Click okay, go, do it, play, or whatever buttons pop up next.
    • You will now be in the game.

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You’ll die laughing at coffins that put the fun into funerals

Not often that we will cite an article from, err, the Sun, but this is has some fun pictures and illustrates an idea whose time is, well, here upon us. Thanks to Final Fling, and if you haven’t friended them on facebook you are missing something!

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Easy Death – a classic in the death and dying field

Book review of Easy Death, by Adi Da Samraj (Da Free John)

As a longtime hospice worker I’ve made a habit of reading everything I can find about death and dying. The psychologically-oriented books on bereavement and mourning are interesting and even helpful, but most of them presume that death is just annihilation. The religiously oriented books are more hopeful but, to put it bluntly, most of them are filled with nonsensical dogma.
I know for a fact that death isn’t annihilation because even after people die you can feel their spirit in the room. In little, out-of-the-way spiritual bookstores I’ve found several small, pretty marginal books that acknowledge this fact and attempt to describe what happens to a person AFTER they die. But none of them really speak with the authority of the two best books on the entire subject of death and dying, Sogyal Rinpoche’s The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying and Adi Da Samraj’s Easy Death. The good Rinpoche’s book is very good indeed and I got a lot of out of it. But Adi Da Samraj’s book is of another order entirely.
Adi Da is an American spiritual master who literally accompanies his own devotees through the death process (the book contains some amazing stories about this). Most importantly, he addresses every important aspect of the death and dying in a language that we ordinary mortals can understand, offering us clear, absolutely usable advice that I’ve never seen anywhere else.
You really can and should know what happens after death, and this book will tell you. I’ve been employing Adi Da Samraj’s wisdom in my hospice work for a few years now and it’s just totally changed the outcome for those who have died right in front of me—as well as for their families, and even for me. It turns out that what you need to know about death is exactly what you should know about life as well. I don’t know who this man is or where he came from but they ought to give him a medal for this book.
—Will Knoblock, Hospice Worker

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