How to do a Reading

Listed below are some simple steps to help you in doing a prayer or reading. We don’t presume to tell anyone how to perform his or her spiritual practice. That is a personal matter left to the individual. What we present here are some techniques that we hope will help you in your practice.

Doing a spiritual reading or a prayer is fairly straightforward. The most important factor is your intention. If you want to help someone that’s the most important thing. That’s the big secret. All you really have to do is want to help! Your good wishes will be conveyed with the prayer. The form of the prayer and the way you perform it are not as important as your good intention.

Step 1: Find a place to do the Reading

Find a location where you will not be disturbed for 15 to 20 minutes. It does not need to be a private space – just one where you will not be required to move or interact with others during the Reading.

Step 2: Gather the few materials you will need for the Reading

Gather the following items: 

  • Name of the individual for whom you are reading 
  • Sacred text you will be reading from, such as The American Book of the Dead by E.J. Gold
  • Photograph of the individual for whom you are reading (if available)

The name and photograph are used in establishing contact with the Voyager – the individual the Reading is directed to.

For the next 4 steps see: 6 Steps to Doing a Reading

May this be used for the benefit of all beings everywhere. 

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Garrison Institute Program: Care for Caregivers

The Garrison Institute has been offering programs in mindfulness and meditation for both laypersons and clinicians/ practitioners for years. It is a cornerstone of life in the beautiful Hudson Valley region of New York state. Now it has become a virtual sanctuary and is offering a video series of instructions for caregivers (and everyone) that are truly excellent!

Care for Caregivers: Skills for Resilience Through Meditation & Mindful Movement

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A Dedication to be used before Prayer or Readings for the Deceased

Here is a simple and short way to open a prayer session. Please see the full prayer/reading cycle as it could be offered in the Christian tradition at: http://www.thecaregiverwebsite.com/a-christian-readers-vigil/

Dedication

May the Results
Of This effort
Be for The benefit of
The present and future needs
Of All Beings Everywhere

Prayer of Unity
I am one in this body
I am one within this mind
I am one in these feelings
I am one within this self
I am one in this being
I am one within the laws
I am one in the Chamber
I am one to do this task

Reader’s Invocation
To be read before the prayer or reading 

I invoke the presence of
My highest possible
State of being
With full attention
Into this moment
As I begin
This Reading task.

It is my intention
To serve
In this small way
To assist the spirit…the soul… the Being
Who we knew as ________________

I acknowledge the impermanence
Of human life
And the suffering
That uncertainty
About what follows death
Brings to surviving family and friends

I acknowledge death
As the destination of all
Human bodies
Including my own
And the one
In which the being
We knew as _________________
Found a temporary home

I acknowledge Hope
as a gesture
offered to offset Loss and Grief
My hope is that the Being
We knew as ________________
moved beyond the body
And entered a larger world of spirit
and was welcomed home
May my reading
Find  __________________
No matter where they are
And
May it guide them as needed

May this invocation
Fortify my sincerity
Diminish my doubt and fear
May I find the strength to focus
In spite of uncertainty
About my role as a reader
And about what happens
to the being
Beyond the death of the body

I acknowledge Gratitude for
This opportunity
To serve
In this manner
In this time of sorrowful necessity
May God

And spiritual beings everywhere
Support my reading effort
By allowing me to work
In the light of Grace

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The Fundamental Buddhist Teachings of the Tibetan Book of the Dead

The Fundamental Teachings Summarized from W.Y. Evans-Wentz introduction Section XII of The Tibetan Book of the Dead

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“…we may now summarize the chief teachings upon which the whole of the Bardo Thodol is based as follows:

  1. That all possible conditions, or states, or realms of sangsaric existence, heavens, hells, and worlds, are entirely dependent upon phenomena, or, in other words, are naught but phenomena;
  2. That all phenomena are transitory, are illusionary, are unreal, and non-existent save in the sangsaric mind perceiving them;
  3. That in reality there are no such beings anywhere as gods, or demons, or spirits, or sentient creatures – all alike being phenomena dependent on cause;
  4. That this cause is a yearning or thirsting after sensation, after the unstable sangsaric existence;
  5. That so long as this cause is not overcome by Enlightenment death follows birth and birth death, unceasingly – even as the wise Socrates believed;
  6. That the after-death existence is but a continuation, under changed conditions, of the phenomena-born existence of the human world – both states being karmic;
  7. That the nature of the existence intervening between death and rebirth in this or any other world is determined by antecedent actions;
  8. That psychologically speaking, it is a prolonged dreamlike state, in what may be called the fourth dimension of space, filled with hallucinatory visions directly resultant from the mental-content of the percipient, happy and heaven-like, if the Karma be good, miserable and hell-like if the Karma be bad;
  9. That Enlightenment results from realizing the unreality of the sangsara of existence;
  10. That unless Enlightenment be won, rebirth in the human world, directly from the Bardo-world or from any other world or from any paradise or hell to which Karma has led, is inevitable;
  11. That such realizing is possible in the human world, or at the important moment of death in the human world, or during the whole of the after-death or Bardo-state, or in certain of the non-human realms;
  12. That training in yoga, i.e. in control of the thinking processes so as to be able to concentrate the mind in an effort to reach Right Knowledge, is essential;
  13. That such training can best be had under a human guru or teacher;
  14. That the Greatest of Gurus known to mankind in this cycle of time is Gautama the Buddha;
  15. That His Doctrine is not unique, but is the same Doctrine which has been proclaimed in the human world for the gaining of Salvation, for the Deliverance from the Circle of Rebirth and Death, for the Crossing of the Ocean of Sangsara, for the Realization of Nirvana, since immemorial time, by a long and illustrious Dynasty of Buddhas, who were Gautama’s predecessors;
  16. That lesser spiritually enlightened beings, Bodhisattvas and gurus, in this world or in other worlds, though still not freed from the Net of Illusion, can, nevertheless, bestow divine grace and power upon the skishya (i.e. the chela or disciple) who is less advanced upon the Path than themselves;
  17. That the Goal is and can only be Emancipation from Sangsara;
  18. That such Emancipation comes from the Realization of Nirvana;
  19. That nirvana is non-sangsaric, being beyond all paradises, heavens, hells, and worlds;
  20. That it is the Ending of Sorrow;
  21. That it is Reality. “


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Advice for the Moment of Death Tibetan Buddhism

This may well be the most important post I have ever shared. Very clear explanation of the Buddhist teachings which are relevant to our times. If you can listen to just the first 30 minutes you will get the gist of the teachings that we impart in our book Caregiver Revolution:

  • as much as possible maintain an undisturbed positive atmosphere at the deathbed
  • use the reminder that some day you will be dying to keep a positive compassionate mental framework while you’re alive and able to practice.

Finally, and most importantly, don’t stress. As caregivers we are often concerned that we have to do things perfectly, but we don’t have to! Just a little mindfulness, a tiny bit more relaxation about the situation, a touch of humor and we are on our way…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isceXZ8u87k&t=1345s

Thanks to friend Eugene G, Govinda for recommending this video!

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Some good Buddhist jokes

Right about now we all need a good laugh! Thanks to our friend Mark R for posting this…

These jokes about Buddhist monks and Buddhism are a pretty accurate reflection.

In fact, Buddhist jokes can help us have a better understanding about Buddhism. 

1. A Zen master told me, “Do the opposite of what I tell you.” So I didn’t.

2. Says the Master to his pupil: “Do you understand that you don’t really exist?”
Upon which the pupil replies: “To whom are you telling that?”

3. Prince Gautama, who had become Buddha, saw one of his followers meditating under a tree at the edge of the Ganges River. Upon inquiring why he was meditating, his follower stated he was attempting to become so enlightened he could cross the river unaided. Buddha gave him a few pennies and said: “Why don’t you seek passage with that boatman. It is much easier.”

4. Someone sent the Buddha a gift box tied with a ribbon. Buddha opened it to find it empty. “Aha!”, he said, “Just what I wanted. Nothing!”

5. What does a Buddhist comedian say when the audience stops laughing?
“I know you’re out there. I can concentrate on your breathing.”

6. A Western Buddhist woman was in India, studying with her teacher. She was riding with another woman friend in a rickshaw, when they were attacked by a man on the street. In the end, the attacker only succeeded in frightening the women, but the Buddhist woman was quite upset by the event and told her teacher. She asked him what she should have done: “what would have been the appropriate, Buddhist response?” The teacher said very simply, “You should have very mindfully and with great compassion whacked the attacker over the head with your umbrella.”

7. What did one Zen practitioner give to another for their birthday?
Nothing.

8. What did the Buddhist say to the pizza chef?
Make me one with everything. The pizza chef prepares it and gives it to the monk. The monk pays him and asks for the change. The pizza vendor says: “Change comes from within.”

9. How many Zen Buddhists does it take to screw in a light bulb? There is no light bulb.

10. Q: What happens when a Buddhist becomes totally absorbed with the computer he is working with?
A: He enters Nerdvana.

11. Why did the Buddhist coroner get fired?
He kept marking the cause of death as “birth.”

12. A Buddhist phones the monastery and asks the monk, “Can you come to do a blessing for my new house?”
The monk replies “Sorry, I’m busy.”
“What are you doing? Can I help?”
“I’m doing nothing.” replied the monk. “Doing nothing is a monk’s core business and you can’t help me with that.”
So the next day the Buddhist phones again, “Can you please come to my house for a blessing?”
“Sorry,” said the monk, “I’m busy.”
“What are you doing?”
“I’m doing nothing,” replied the monk.
“But that was what you were doing yesterday!” said the Buddhist.
“Correct”, replied the monk, “I’m not finished yet!”
~ Ajahn Brahm

13. A zen student asked his master: “Is it okay to use email?” “Yes”, replied the master, “but with no attachments.”

14. A student is on one side of a raging river. There are no bridges. He has no boat. He shouts out to the master on the opposite bank. “How do I get to the other side?” The master shouts back: “You are on the other side.”

https://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/11/14-buddhist-jokes-to-make-you-chuckle/

Resources:
Wisdom & Fun Quotes Collection
The Curious Diary of Mr. Jam
What Do you Think my Friend

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